Our First Full Swap Ever: A swinger adventure in Spain We've been wanting to have this experience for so long, those of us who know us since the beginning know that we're swingers in theory, but had never actually experienced it, no matter how many swinger clubs or sex parties we go to, there never seemed to be a couple we could vibe with. But after many years of giving the same answer "we'll swap when we find the right couple", today we can say that we're no longer a virgin couple